Communication is to relationships as water is to life; they are inseparable.
There is an ever increasing epidemic of men and women being oblivious to their own bullshit. It is very important to live outside of yourself, understand others, and the inner workings of social living. Of course, we are not talking about people who just don’t give a fuck but rather those who don’t understand why the majority of people can not stand being around them. As always, I will break down the stereotypical traits of these individuals to promote self assessment and evaluation.
Rap artist, Joe Budden and his homeboy candidly discussing the 21st century dating scene from a male point of view. Do they have a point or is this just a regular dude venting his frustration about the certain types of females he has encountered?
If you like a man and are interested in forming a relationship with him, don’t burn him out.
I know without a shadow of a doubt that most of you in reading the title of this article instantly said to yourselves, “NO!” Well, I am sorry to be informing you that yourself or someone you currently know is engaging in an imaginary relationship. I have heard story after story from countless people claiming they were wronged by the opposite sex, but take a closer look at their situation and you will realize that the cause of the failure was of their own doing. The problem always lies in a word called “reality”. It never seems to exist for some people. I have three specific personalities in mind.
Men are simple creatures. Far simpler than their female counterparts in trying to understand what makes them tick. For the average man, it does not take much to make him happy. Many people believe that even in these contemporary times food, sex, and sleep are still the primary stimulators of a man’s overall happiness. I will neither confirm nor deny the aforementioned belief, but men do have a primal urge that permeates throughout their thoughts on a consistent basis. For most, it begins at puberty and from there only gets worse as the urge is fulfilled. Some men suffer through it, many others fully embrace it, but others simply have it removed without their knowledge. This carnal desire that dwells within all men is called the “new pussy” urge.
Many people are under the impression that once they leave high school or reach the legal drinking age of 21 that adulthood starts. There are a few that belive that once they are sexually active that they should be considered something like an adult. The term that gets thrown around like dollars at a strip club is “grown.” The other day, I had the pleasure of witnessing some individuals inform others that they were “grown ass men and women” and wouldn’t stand for any foolishness. I thought it was funny because grown ass people don’t make scenes like they did and one guy couldn’t release his left had from his jeans belt loop because they would fall to his ankles when he did. The people ranged in age from 21 to 27. I got to thinking about what “grown” actually meant and did an inventory of the checklist with myself as the reference.
Some men live different realities with different women. This isn’t schizo or bipolar behavior either. It simply boils down to being able to wear different masks with different women.