…if you wear a wedding ring for a NONEXISTENT marriage, you will only be FUCKED and NEVER considered. PLEASE REMOVE ALL BAGGAGE AND RETURN YOUR SEAT TO IT’S…
That’s it. Really simple concept. No need to elaborate on what I am speaking about because I think this is pretty self-explanatory and I hope some of you get mad. On second thought, there is always that one person who never really quite gets it. I guess I should give up something. Aight, lets spit shine this s*** for those who need clarity.
The wedding ring is a symbol. It symbolizes a couples commitment to each other and the bond between a man and a woman. When a man encounters a woman who consciously chooses to still wear a wedding ring for a marriage that has been disbanded it is a strong indicator of a still existing emotional connection to the marriage and/or the man. The only conclusion the man will come to is that the woman is mentally and emotionally unstable therefore leaving him two choices; leave the woman alone altogether or f**k her then leave her be. Most men choose the latter. No man in his right mind will consciously become involved with a woman who exhibits this type of behavior and sincerely consider her for a long-term relationship.
Also, you woman who choose to purchase wedding-like bands and rings for yourselves who’ve never been married but think by wearing some ring it will draw some positive long-term relationship vibe toward you are sadly mistaken. What you have done by placing that fake symbol on your hand is imprison your single and sincerely available identity. Although the ring has positive intentions, it subconsciously alters the entire aura and vibe a mentally healthy single person should have. The constant visible reminder of your want and in some cases need to be married will begin to consistently appear in your actions and conversations with men. This behavior will eventually lead men to labeling you as desperate or just crazy period. What normal sane person walks around stating, “Until someone is man enough to replace this ring I’m married to myself; I’m committed to myself!” Can this person be viewed as mentally stable? Really?
Ladies, it is hard enough finding quality people when dating. DO NOT make things more complicated and harder for you to come across a high quality person. Keep it simple and free. Stop imposing unnecessary burdens and expectations upon yourselves and just live. If your marriage failed and you’re still walking around with physical remnants of its existence either resurrect the marriage or get the F**K over it. Stop living in the past. Most women initiate the divorces anyway but still want to wear your wedding rings? But, let me not digress. It’s a lot of game and trash out here. Do not easily place yourselves in a situation of being positioned as a jump-off or random fling. It is already hard enough having to differentiate the real from the fake; start off on your end with a clean slate.